He is mine and I am his/biblical marriage

we share in our tasks

we share in our life choices

we share in our joys and in our sadness

we share in our activities, helping each other to decide what would be best for our family in all situations

we share in finances, figuring out bills and budgets.. he does the banking, i take care of the receipts

we work on our love languages together, giving and taking the best we know how

we work on learning about each other

we belong to each other physically as well, within our personal boundaries. it's so important to have healthy boundaries but still allow ourselves to be intimate.

we learn to love each other and DECIDE to love each other, whether we like each other at times or not. learning to accept each other in our faults and strengths daily.

holding hands and depending on each other for life.

ADDED 4/21/2020
it's not 50/50. we each give 100%. we each deserve 100% from the other, and if the other is not all in, it's an incomplete relationship.
it's life long learning.